Scarlett Norfolk

MY WEBSITE:
Thank you for coming to my website. If you are here, you probably got here by finding my website URL on a BackPage ad posted in the Escort section. That means you have an interest in visiting an escort. In this website, I’d like to talk a bit about me, who I am, and what services provide. But I will also talk a bit about the likely reasons why you are looking to visit an escort, and what I believe would be a great way for us to get together for a meaningful, fun experience.
The real truth about escorts would shock just about everyone in America. So would the truth about why gentlemen visit escorts. Let’s start with a very interesting article I came across recently. The Article is titled “12 Stunning Photos Offer a Rarely Seen Look Inside the Lives of Sex Workers”.  The site for this article is:  http://mic.com/articles/107472/a-photographer-lived-in-23-nevada-brothels-to-reveal-what-sex-work-really-looks-like.
That article is one of very few I have ever seen that try to illustrate with photos and words a simple reality: escorts are real women and the gentlemen who visit them are real men. We all live in the real world. We are not merely fantasies imagined by men. We really exist, and we really have real lives! We aren’t created the moment a man has a fantasy; we exist 24/7/365. Like all women, we have our goals in life, we have our own dreams about the future, we have emotions, we have relationships – we have parents, siblings, friends, neighbors, and love interests.  
I like the article so much that I am reprinting the text of the article below!! Please read the article when you are done reading my website. I think the article will back up some of the points I am going to make in my website.

ABOUT ME:
I am a real woman. I exist. I am divorced. It turns out that “Forever After” doesn’t always mean “Happily Forever After”. You are old enough to understand that divorce is a common thing in our society. We meet, we fall in love, then we fall out of love. For me at least there is one thing that is “Happily Forever After”:  namely, a wonderful 16-year old daughter and a wonderful 6-year old daughter.  Call me a soccer mom or call me a MILF, but the real truth in life is perhaps this:  one of the very most important things we will ever accomplish in life is to create a raise a wonderful child.
For the more mundane details:  I am 35 years old. I stand just 5’3” tall and weigh only 125 pounds. I have “C” cups and fit a size 5 in pants, so I am very petite. I worked for 6 years in the home care industry as a nurse.
I have one primary goal in life: to successfully raise my two daughters to be happy, well-adjusted, well-educated women!! That may seem like a modest goal but it is perhaps the most important goal one can have in life. If every mother on the planet could raise children the right way, there would be no violence, no crime, no war, no poverty. People would help each other, not hurt each other.
And that modest goal of mine explains a lot about why I am posting as an “escort”. I am seeking to earn money to raise my daughters. I am not seeking to earn money to have beautiful clothes or a fancy car or to eat at upscale restaurants. I am first and foremost a mom. Everything I do is focused toward that role.
That is the story of my life. I am a mom working as an “escort” to earn money with which to raise my daughters. I take my “job” as an “escort” seriously – just as seriously as you probably take your job. My job is everything to me. It is my lifeline. Your job is probably everything to you. It is probably your lifetime. Like everyone who takes their job seriously, I want to do the best I can do!!
All business people know a simple principle of running a successful business: all profit is made from providing a good service at a good rate that makes customers/clients so happy they return time and time again. In other words, repeat clients are the whole key to running a successful business.  All of these companies are tops in their fields, yet would be bankrupt tomorrow morning if they had no repeat customers:  Walmarts, McDonald’s, 7-Eleven, Exxon-Mobil, and many others. The local beauty salon, the local barber, the local car mechanic:  all need repeat customers/clients to make a profit and stay open.
I too need repeat clients to make a profit and stay open!

ABOUT YOU:
You are a man and you are looking in the escort section of BackPage. That tells me that you are looking for the company of a woman. But I know that you are looking for more than just a quick roll. You are very likely looking for a meaningful encounter, one during which you begin to develop a lasting emotional relationship.
The reality is more like this. You are reading this ad because you feel an innate need for female companionship. There is something missing in your life. You may be married, but that special romantic passion is not present any more. Your body is pushing you to find a woman with whom to share that special romantic passion once again. It is a basic male need – as basic as the need for air, water, food, shelter, and clothing. It is present in you every minute of every day. It drives you.

Everything a man does is done to impress a woman so she will be romantically attracted to him. In today’s world, men get an education so they can get great jobs so they can impress the women and get rewarded with the special romantic passion and sex they want. In short, since the beginning of time the main drive in men has been one thing -- sex.

Men don’t need to think about that one thing. It is hormonal. It drives every man every minute of every day. Ultimately, it does involve a male explosion. But I think that a lot more is involved than just that. After all, a man can create his own explosions easily and quickly (and most men do and do often!). There is something more, something “extra”. And that “extra” is the whole point. That “extra” is what drives men to turn to Back Page. It is that “extra” that is everything.

That “extra” has been described in many books over the years. I will try to describe it from my point of view from what I have learned. First, not that you are shallow, but you want a woman who is beautiful in the face, with beautiful natural breasts, soft skin, a nice butt and long legs (and other nice equipment). That is natural. We all prefer the attractive to the unattractive, so don’t feel that it is inappropriate to prefer an attractive woman.

Second, you want a woman who appreciates you for who you are. You want to be appreciated for your accomplishments in life. You want to be with a woman who makes you feel special. You want a woman who thinks you are wonderful for who you are and what you have done. This too is natural to men. Women don’t usually feel a need to be appreciated in quite the same way. Men feel a basic need to be treated as being competent in what they do. A man feels very vulnerable when his woman fails to appreciate his competence. You want 100% acceptance and unconditional love.

Third, you want a woman who will pay 100% attention to you when you are together – no interruptions from cell phones, etc. This will become a private universe where no one else exists – just you and me, alone, together.

Fourth, you want your physical needs to be met. You want your muscles massaged. You want your back scratched! You want your skin to be soothed. And like every human being – man and woman – you want to have a great sexual encounter that ends with a great big orgasm. The drive toward that explosion is one of the absolutely most basic drives in all of us. It is why you turned to BackPage.

Fifth, you want a woman with whom you are comfortable. You want a woman with whom you can talk. You want a woman with whom you share a common history, a common background, a common basis of experiences. You want a woman that speaks your language, went to the same kinds of schools as you did, had the same kinds of friends as you had. You want a woman who looks a bit like you and who thinks a bit like you. You want a woman who reacts to the news of the day the same way that you respond.

Sixth, you want that magical spark of romance and intrigue. We all want it. We all remember forever our first love. We would all like to be able to recreate that once-in-a-lifetime feeling we had then. We all know that a large part of the excitement is the initial conquest. We certainly all know that it is hard to keep that excitement alive in a marriage over the course of years. (And we all know that the easiest way to find it again is to start a new relationship.)

The world’s greatest escort experience is not about sex – it is about making you feel great about yourself! It is about making you feel loved and appreciated. There will be a lot of physical touching, stimulation, arousal, and an orgasm, to be sure, but none of these are memorable! If you want an orgasm, you can give one to yourself quite easily. In fact, most men give themselves one every day. What you can never give yourself is the feeling of love and appreciation.

You want a wonderful escort experience with a beautiful woman who will be attentive, appreciative, understanding, loving. You will never remember the sex, the orgasm; rather, you will remember how I made you feel as a man.

The emotional component is ten times more important than the physical components. John Gray in his book “Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus” points out that the number one thing a man wants from a relationship with a woman is to be treated as competent. A wife should say things like, “Honey, you did a brilliant job mowing the grass; you did a fantastic job fixing the washing machine; you were so smart fixing that leak.” A man wants that more than he wants great sex!! You are probably the same!

I am not just in the sex business. I do not just give sexual favors. I am in the emotional support business. I am a therapist, a counselor, a psychologist, a psychiatrist; I am with you to listen and to be emotionally supportive.

Our time together will of course involve intimacy, but will really be about much more than that. It will also be about me giving you the attention you want, the time listening to you that you want, the appreciation that you want, and the sensuous touches that you want. I want to make you feel like a million dollars on multiple levels – as a romantic interest, as a friend, and finally as a sex object! Perhaps you will want to reciprocate!

Gentlemen who read my ad are obviously very intelligent – otherwise, they could not get through this many pages!! Also, gentlemen who call me are interested in a lot more than just a quick one-time fling – they are looking for friendship and companionship that will endure.

I would like to share some of my thoughts with you. I thought that this would be about one thing and one thing only. After all, I have heard throughout my life that men have only one thing on their minds every minute of every day and night – sex. I have read articles that claim that a man thinks about sex every 10 seconds!! I thought this would be a situation where I would open the door and a gentleman would want immediate sexual gratification. Now I know the reality.
No man can ever give himself an orgasm as good as a woman gives him because all those “extra” things are missing. No human being can ever tickle himself / herself. It just simply cannot be done by anyone, ever. In contrast, every human being can create an explosion for himself/herself. But not as good as one created by a beautiful woman!!

When you visit me, we should each be filled with an expectant attitude that today is going to be one of the best days ever! If you are romantic, perhaps you will have some flowers or a box of chocolates! When the door opens and we see each other for the first time, let it be magical.

Of course, I know that you will probably have some nervousness. You are meeting someone new for the first time ever and you do not know what to expect. You do not know whether all will be as it is stated. I have the same apprehension about you!

Let’s start off the same way any dating couple would start off – by sitting on the sofa, conversing for a while. Let’s get to know each other a little. As we become acquainted, perhaps we will begin to explore a little. Let the fun begin!”

I know that the body rub portion of our session must be the highest quality service available. In the 1950’s, the words “Made in Japan” meant that it was cheaply made junk that would break after the first use. But Edward Deeming told the Japanese to change their paradigm, to make only the highest quality products that could be made. As a result, the words “Made in Japan” today mean the highest quality products that can be found! I have the same attitude!!

IN OTHER WORDS! I’LL SAY THAT A DIFFERENT WAy:
You are on Backpage because you want something special. You want sex. You need to be discreet. You need to be safe. You want a beautiful young woman who has no issues – no alcohol issues, no drug issues, no medical issues, no mental health issues, etc!!

You have so many choices that it should be easy for you to find exactly what you are looking for!! I am writing this description of me to help you decide if I am the right match for you. As I look through all the ads, I am trying to think of how to describe how I fit in and what I am like and what I offer.

I know that there are tons and tons of options available to you. Literally dozens of websites and hundreds upon hundreds of beautiful ladies from which to choose. I also know that the decision of whether to select a service provider who only provides body rubs and no escort services or whether to select a service provider who provides only escort services or whether to select a service provider who provides both body rub services and escort services is a difficult choice you must make. There are many considerations. You have your own reasoning as to which is best for you.

My reasoning is very complex. My reasoning is based on the answer to the basic question: why are you coming to visit a service provider? You have probably asked yourself this same question. But you are only one man. You think you know the answer in your own mind: you and your wife have lost intimacy, your wife hit menopause and gave up on romance and passion, you and your wife “grew apart”, your wife lost her great figure and great beauty and is no longer as attractive as she once was, you want sex but your wife doesn’t, your wife doesn’t understand you, your wife has become a bitch, your wife won’t rub your back and tease you seductively the way your body needs in order to overcome ED issues, etc., etc., etc.!!

And so, based on your own particular reasoning and interpretation of your “issue”, you think that you need the tender, loving touch of a beautiful woman (a body rub) or you think you need the full experience, the complete home run (the escort services). No doubt you have thought about this for a long, long, long time. This was not something that entered your mind for the first time today. It has been in the back of your mind for a long time, and it has been in the front of your mind for a while too. Perhaps you have even discussed this issue with a buddy or two. Perhaps they are in the same situation. Perhaps they told you about BackPage.

How many opinions have you heard on this issue? Your own, to be sure. Perhaps the opinion of a buddy or two. Maybe even a therapist. Maybe a book or an article, perhaps several. I do not want to say that I am the world’s foremost authority on this issue, but I do want to say that during the last few years I have heard literally hundreds upon hundreds of opinions on this issue. And I want to say that all the reasons I have heard, and this will probably include yours, are completely wrong.

You are not coming to see me because you need a physical release. You can do that yourself, and you probably do and probably often. You are not coming because you need sex. You could get that from your wife for a little asking, or if needed you could get that for a very, very low donation ($60!) from many providers, over and done in just 10 minutes.

What you want is something more than mere touching or quick sex. You want the loving adoration of a beautiful woman with an incredible body and a brilliant mind! You want a woman who will listen to you when you talk about the successes you have had in life; you want a woman who will listen to you when you talk about your day. You want a woman who will understand you. You want a woman who is mysterious, unknown, new. You want a new conquest.

Have you ever been around an old soldier and his wife when someone new enters the room? The old soldier begins to tell his story about landing on Normandy Beach during D-Day. His wife rolls her eyes and says, “Not that story again for the millionth time!” and leaves the room. The visitor listens enthralled. The visitor has never heard that story from anyone who landed on that Beach and listens with rapt attention. I’m willing to bet that your wife is a bit like that – she does not want to hear your stories, she does not want to hear about your day! And if I’m right, you probably don’t want to hear about hers either. That old soldier is not looking for a breast or a vagina: he is looking for an ear!!!! A loving, supportive, interested ear.

Do you remember your first conquest? It was thrilling and exciting, wasn’t it? The hunt, the chase are great fun. But after 10, 20, 30, 40 years, the thrill is gone. The honeymoon is long over. You miss it. You would love to have it back. But you know your limits. You know your consequences. You know that you would completely alter your life, basically ruin your life, by having an affair. So you have ruled out that route. You have decided upon a less risky course of action. You want to get what you want, what you are missing, but you do not want to give up everything you have to get it!

I have often heard, “I have a wonderful wife. We still love each other very much. I don’t want to get divorced, I don’t want to hurt her”, etc. I have even heard, “This was my wife’s idea. She wants me to visit girls and have my fun but just leave her alone.”

So you turned to BackPage, thinking that having a beautiful young girl give you a body rub with a nice release at the end would satisfy your needs, only to be terribly disappointed. Perhaps you visited a girl who offered escort services, thinking that would replace your wife as she existed in the early years of your marriage. But you were out the door in ten minutes and felt cheated, despite having your way with her. You even felt demeaned, belittled.

You have probably felt cheated every time you visited a girl. You felt cheated because you did not get what you wanted! Here is the surprise: you did not get what you really wanted because you did not know what you really wanted. Since you did not know what you really wanted, you did not ask for it. You did not know how to get what you really wanted. You could not verbalize it to yourself, let alone to a woman you had never met before.

You thought you really wanted the touch of a beautiful woman or you thought you wanted sex with a beautiful woman. YOU WERE WRONG. You wanted much more than either of those two things. I’ll say what you really want: “You want the loving adoration of a beautiful woman with an incredible body and a brilliant mind!”

Let’s consider some of the bad experiences I have heard about, the horror stories of BackPage visits. Perhaps you have some you’d like to share. Many clients have told me about visiting absolutely gorgeous body rub girls but they left unhappy because the girls were emotionally cold, they gave “mechanical” body rubs. Their hands touched in all the right ways and all the right places, but they were like having a robot give a body rub – no human emotion, no human intimacy. Other clients have told me about visiting absolutely gorgeous escort girls but they left unhappy because the girls were emotionally cold, they did not enjoy themselves; they only wanted the man to have an orgasm as quickly as possible and kick him out the door moments later (no afterglow, no winding down). In some cases, the girl was stiff as a board and looked up at the ceiling and said, “Tell me when you’re done.” If you do not have a horror story to tell, you are a lucky man!

What is the common denominator of bad sessions: the girl lacked emotion. She lacked love. She was a robot. She just wanted the session to be over as quickly as possible. She had no interest whatsoever in you as a man; she only wanted your wallet. She did not want to hear your stories, about your successes, your life, your day. And she did not want to tell you anything about herself. She was with you for a very limited time for a very limited purpose. Give you an orgasm, collect a donation, and kick you out the door. You left with a big hole in your heart. You felt cheated, not because you were not touched, not because you did not have your way, but because you did not feel loved. When you left, you did not feel good about yourself. The visit was not an emotionally uplifting experience.

If you do not understand your real motivations in turning to BackPage to look for a service provider, then it is unlikely you will ever be satisfied! You will not get what you really want because you do not know what you really want, and therefore do not seek what you really want and do not ask for what you really want.

Mere physical touching and physical pleasures are not what is really the most satisfying to a man. It takes a lot more. It takes an emotional connection. You don’t want a cold, emotionless “session” with someone who is “doing a job”! You want someone who is emotionally invested in you – someone who wants to share things about your life and what you do, your triumphs and successes. You want a lady who will listen to you! And you want to learn about her in return.

If you feel as I feel about this issue, then we will be a good match. If you only want a touch, devoid of emotion, then we will not be a good match. If you only want a quick release, devoid of emotion, then we will not be a good match.

But if you want to be touched by loving hands and to touch me in return with loving hands, if you want to be satisfied in those loving ways with a passionate, loving woman and you want to satisfy me in a passionate, loving way, then we will be a great match indeed. I am looking for an emotionally satisfying experience that will develop a lasting bond between us. I am not looking for a slam-dam-thank-you ma’am, meaningless one-time experience. I want to be your permanent temporary girlfriend!

I would like to say that I believe in getting together for extended periods of time. Let’s be real – this will not be the first time you have ever conquered a lady, nor the first time I have been conquered! But I want this to be just as memorable for you and for me as that first time! Remember the song that has the lyric “It feels like the first time”? The writer of that song hit the nail on the head – there is never a time that we are more likely to remember than that first time.

Can you remember the times when getting together with a woman lasted 2 to 3 hours? Do you remember the anticipation, the slow gentle exploration of each other’s body, the spine-tingling excitement? Isn’t the teasing foreplay 99% of the fun? Yes, I know that most service providers -- body rub girls and escort girls -- want you to be gone within minutes of the time you arrive. Many gentlemen have explained those types of sessions to me. I almost feel as though I could write a book on them because I have heard them described to me so many times. And there is definitely a time and a place for them!! But that is not what I offer here. What I offer is one thing and one thing only – a recreation of the “FIRST TIME”!

I want all the gentle exploration. I want all the anticipation, all the excitement, all the passion, all the sensuous pleasure that long sessions provide. If you are in a rush because you need to get to the airport or get home or get back to the office, then I will not be the right gal for you!

It is pretty likely that you have spent time with more than one woman during the course of your life. Can you remember what made for the best episodes ever? What happened? What did you love the most? If you could waive a magic wand and make for a great, great episode, what elements would you want? What would happen? If you can just ask yourself those questions, let alone answer them, then I am probably a GREAT match for you!
NOT A PERFECT WORLD -- E.D. HAPPENS:

I am a woman who lives in the real world. In the real world, things are not as perfect as we would like them to be. In the real world, gentlemen sometimes have issues that prevent them from having as much fun as they would like to have, gentlemen have issues that diminish their performances. As men age, challenges may arise.

May I ask why you have been challenged?

I have given these challenges a lot of thought and a lot of research. It is easy to go to Google and type in the key words. Many articles appear, many from distinguished medical associations, journals, and organizations. The volume and the knowledge is very impressive. Of course, the medical profession and the pharmaceutical companies want you to believe that the cure is in a magic pill or potion.

I have my own ideas. I believe that sometimes the cure is in a woman's loving touch! I know the leading causes: diabetes, hypertension, atherosclerosis, emotional issues, stress, anxiety, depression, alcohol, tobacco, prescription medications (esp. antidepressants, pain medicines, high blood pressure medicines, etc.), non-prescription drugs, fatigue, neurological or spinal-cord injuries, hypogonadism, low testosterone levels, multiple sclerosis, Parkinson’s disease, radiation therapy, stroke, surgery or problems, bladder surgery, disease, injury, “any disorder that causes injury to the nerves or impairs blood flow in the penis”, etc. I like the first two articles that pop up:

http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/men/reproductive/109.printerview.html

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/erectiledysfunction.html

Personally, I believe that having a non-helpful spouse should be listed along with the above medically-stated causes!!

So many gentlemen with performance issues have visited me that I have decided to provide myself with a thorough understanding of the causes and the cures, so that when someone with an issue visits me I will already know what to do!!

Of course, YOU are the starting point. When you come to visit me, YOU should do a little research and perform a little thinking yourself. Try to discover possible reasons. If prescription medications are the likely cause, ask you doctor if you can delay your daily medications until AFTER you visit me that day. Do not use ANY alcohol for 48 hours BEFORE visiting me. Do not smoke until AFTER you visit me that day.

Once you arrive at my door, I’ll take over. I know that making fun has more than one component. From my viewpoint, there are two main components: the emotional and the physical.

From a medical viewpoint, “[Enlargement] begins with sensory or mental stimulation, or both. Impulses from the neurological center and local nerves cause the muscles of the corpora cavernose to relax, allowing blood to flow in and fill the spaces. The blood creates pressure in the corpora cavernosa, making the [you know what to] expand. The tunica albuginea helps trap the blood in the corpora cavernosa, thereby sustaining [the enlargement]. When muscles in the [you know what] contract to stop the inflow of blood and open outflow channels, [the enlargement] is reversed.”

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/erectiledysfunction.html

I can not cure physical problems. But I can usually treat the main symptom -- the performance issue -- to the point of satisfaction!! I can do that through a combination of emotional responses combined with physical adjustments. I’ll explain what I do below.

It would be very possible for a man of 18 -- you when you were 18 perhaps -- to walk down a street, see a gorgeous woman with a beautiful face and a perfect figure -- and if asked by her to step into her house and make her wildly, passionately satisfied be able to do so within a few seconds!!! men have no problem needing emotional excitement to generate physical enlargement and performance!! But older men are a bit different. Older men often need an emotional component as well as the physical attraction -- and time!! A man can jump into the sack on a moment's notice and perform with Olympic heroics; an older man often needs emotional attraction AND more time.

Would I believe that you could walk through my door, take one look at me, get an immediate enlargement and be finished within 2 minutes? NO WAY!!

Instead, consider this scenario. We set up a time to meet. You are excited; you bring chocolates and roses! We sit and talk for a few minutes to get to know each other, but just as important you have an opportunity to take notice of my large cleavage. You sneak peeks when you think I'm not looking. You get fantasies in your mind.

We sit on the sofa and we do what you probably did as a man -- make out!! Yes, you can group, fondle, explore. That is a key to success that will follow later!

When the time is right, you lie down on your back. I'll give you about an hour and a half of tender, loving body rubs. Then I'll take notice of the last frontier!! Perhaps a quarter hour or a hour of paying attention there!! But not with direct touches – but rather, with touches nearby that are near-misses.

With this much emotional and physical stimulation, he should rise to life. If the emotional and physical stimulation don't cause him to rise to life, then several different tactics must be employed. We'll have to elevate our efforts to the next level(s). A bit like fighting a battle!! One level may be stimulation of the part inside the male body, the one that causes such troubles for gentlemen, the one most likely to develop cancer. Just look at the drawing in the article cited above and you’ll know which part I mean. More levels may be needed. But I'll save the details of those until later.

My view is rather simple: view this as a major conquest, just as you did when you were a man. You have seduced women before. You had the right stuff. The key now is to act like the man you once were -- go back and have that romance, that seduction, that conquest. the way you made love as a man.

Do not visit me if you are in a hurry. That will never work for you. It does not work for other men who have gained a few years. IT DOES NOT WORK FOR ME EITHER!

Time is one key ingredient. An emotional attraction is a second key ingredient. A physical attraction is a third key ingredient. And sensory stimulation -- gentle lighting by candlelight; soft romantic music; good food; pleasant fragrances on me and in the room; soft, delicate touches of soft skin on skin -- is a fourth key ingredient. I provide all of those!

I would suggest that we make a long afternoon or evening of our time together. If you are having a challenge, let’s beat it. Let’s give the absolute best attempt possible! In my view, I’m thinking about 2 to 3 hours. You are old enough to remember when you spent that many hours on a major conquest as a young man! In the old days, the recipe was similar: take a lady to a nice dinner, then a movie (perhaps a double feature!], then walk her home [and hope for an invitation inside].

I have faced similar challenges in the past. I understand the nature of the challenge and I think I have developed a comprehensive battle plan. I am a fully ready, willing and able partner!

When you are ready to tackle this challenge with me, write to me to tell me when a good day would be or call me. Because our time together is likely to extend for a long period, you should call me a few days in advance. This is going to consume a large chunk of my day and also a large chunk of your day. Clear your calendar and I'll clear mine!

CONTACT INFORMATION AND HOW TO SCHEDULE AN APPOINTMENT:

The best way to contact me is to send an email to me. My email address is: ScarlettNorfolk2014@GMail.Com. When you send an email to me, please include this information: your first name, your age, your general occupation, and an idea of which length of session you would like (1 hour, 1.5 hours, 2 hours, 2.5 hours, 3 hours), and your location. After we have exchanged emails, I will ask you for a phone number to your cell phone [a real phone number which is registered in your name, not a Google number or a Skype number or a disposable phone.] We can pick a day and time to meet. I will call you at an agreed-upon, preset time to talk to you and to get directions.
White males over the age of 30 only please.

DONATIONS AND DISCLAIMER:

The following information is provided in accordance with client disclosure requirements. I am not a licensed physician. The treatment provided is an alternative to or is complimentary to healing arts services licensed by the State. The services provided are not regulated by the State. Services provided are for relation therapy, which may include application of one or more of the following: aroma therapy, sound therapy, herbal treatments, touch therapy, and prostate massage. This treatment is based upon the theory that stress causes and intensifies symptoms of physical ailments and a person heals more quickly and effectively when relaxed. Each treatment is tailored to the individual client in order to help the client relax to the greatest extent possible. I have made a lifelong, independent study of energy flow (chi) within the body. I have over 2 years experience in applying the various modalities to help clients achieve a state of relaxation.

This is not ad for prostitution. The services advertised are for alternative or complimentary health care. The service provider is not licensed as a healing arts practitioner.

NOTE: Any money exchanged is for companionship purposes only, for which I ask for a donation for my time. Anything else that may or may not occur is a matter of choice between consenting adults of legal age and is not contracted for nor is it requested to be contracted for in any manner. This is NOT an offer of any illegal service. I do not provide any "extra" services above what I describe herein -- I do not offer any illegal services or prostitution services. I do not allow any type of drug use whatsoever!!

I ask for a donation based solely as a voluntary donation made in exchange for time, not for specific services.

$200 for an hour
$250 for an hour and a half
$300 for two hours
$350 for two and a half hours
$400 for three hours

AVAILABILITy:

I am generally available from 9 am until late depending on the day. I will not be available on Sunday's. INCALL only!

USUALLY IN LIFE, YOU GET WHAT YOU PAY FOR:

I like this quote: "The bitterness of poor quality remains long after the sweetness of the low price is forgotten." My philosophy is simple: pay enough to get what you really want because not getting what you really want isn't really worth anything! Gentlemen have told me their complaints about seeing a young woman for a low price, then feeling ripped out that they were shoved out the door in 10 minutes! What were they thinking? A middle aged gentleman should see a middle aged lady. And should spend as much time pursuing her as he did pursuing his first date when he was a young man!



HERE IS THE ARTICLE I FOUND A FEW DAYS AGO:
http://mic.com/articles/107472/a-photographer-lived-in-23-nevada-brothels-to-reveal-what-sex-work-really-looks-like
12 Stunning Photos Offer a Rarely Seen Look Inside the Lives of Sex Workers
 By Marcie Bianco  December 31, 2014

"I originally imagined the Nevada brothels would be these dirty, dingy trailers out in the middle of the desert," photographer Marc McAndrews told Mic. "I guess the best way to describe the type of person I was expecting to find there would be as someone out of a Nick Cave song: lost drifters and social misfits."
Five years and 33 Nevadan brothels later, not only did McAndrews proved his own assumptions wrong, but the photography project that came out of his travels offers a view of a sexual landscape rarely seen.
In an interview with Mic, McAndrews talked about what motivated him to document America's brothels, an effort published in the book Nevada Rose: Inside the American Brothel. Setting out in 2005 and living in 23 of the 33 brothels over the duration of the project, McAndrews' photographs portray the relationships and social dynamics between the women who work at the brothels and their clients. Although more often associated with Playboy bunny salaciousness, the photographs capture a much more authentic — and ultimately rather mundane — existence.
His portraits also offer a glimpse of the women's humanity, despite their unconventional professions. These women are not objects who are bought and sold; rather, as McAndrews discovered, they are often strong, entrepreneurial women with their own goals and motivations for being sex workers. "Being able to interact with the women as who they are, not as a character they were portraying, really helped to inform the project," he said.
The brothel system: While more commonly and politely referring to each other as "working girls," each brothel McAndrews visited has a hierarchy system with a number of names and designations denoting the position of each girl within that particular brothel. The women, he said, ranged in age from 18 to mid-60s; demographically, they "skewed" white, but he did notice a "diverse range of women" in general.
The "Big Sister" is often a name given to "the most experienced woman, or the one that has been in each particular brothel the longest," McAndrews explains. "She would function as a representative for the women to management." Big Sister, with the help of the "House Mom," or the manager, is tasked with handling complaints from the women and working with management about any problems they might have. She also helps any first-time sex workers — known as "Turn Outs" — by accompanying them "through the whole process the first few times; everything from initially talking with a customer to the negotiation. She would even be there for the Turn Out's first party with a customer."
As one can imagine, it took McAndrews some time to gain access to the close-knit communities. After being turned down at the famous Bunny Ranch, he traveled to Elko, Nevada, and was permitted to stay at Mona's Ranch. From then on, he was "shocked" by the access he got to all the brothels.
"After I photographed in Mona's Ranch, I had Polaroids to show the other owners exactly what I wanted to do," he explained. "Occasionally I would see some of the same women I had met at other brothels who would be able to vouch for me and what I was doing. Once I was given the OK, they set some ground rules about when I could and couldn't shoot and about asking permission from the women and customers."
As one can imagine, it took McAndrews some time to gain access to the close-knit communities. After being turned down at the famous Bunny Ranch, he traveled to Elko, Nevada, and was permitted to stay at Mona's Ranch. From then on, he was "shocked" by the access he got to all the brothels.
"After I photographed in Mona's Ranch, I had Polaroids to show the other owners exactly what I wanted to do," he explained. "Occasionally I would see some of the same women I had met at other brothels who would be able to vouch for me and what I was doing. Once I was given the OK, they set some ground rules about when I could and couldn't shoot and about asking
Framing the sex object as human: Through his interviews, McAndrews was able to tease out the stories and motivations of each women, from financial need to the fulfillment of a something more personal. "I met a woman who was a ninth-grade math teacher in Minnesota during the school year and was doing this because, as she described, it was a personal kink," he said. "I met another woman who had never done any sex work before but turned to the brothels when she lost her job and couldn't find other work in the recession. She was able to support her family like this. There was no single good or bad reason why women worked there."
While sex work is illegal almost everywhere in the U.S., Nevada is the only state that does legally permit and regulate brothels in the same way as it does other industries.
"The reasons women worked there are as varied as each of the women," McAndrews tells Mic. "The brothels offered a safe alternative to the illegal business free from drugs and with independence to negotiate for themselves."
Working girls in control: "Intimacy is not uncommon in the brothels," McAndrews says. In his five years, he witnessed the extent of the familial and supportive community not only fostered among the working girls but among the women and their patrons. "I was at Donna's Battle Mountain Ranch where I met a man who would come in every Thursday evening to cook dinner for all of the women. No services were rendered in exchange, and the women, regulars and locals would all hang out and have dinner together. There's also been a number of women and customers who have gotten married."
At the same time, McAndrews observed how intimacy was negotiated and understood by many of the women who had lives outside the brothels. "One of the most interesting aspects of the brothels was the way women separated their jobs from their personal sex lives," he said. "Many of the women had boyfriends or were married with kids. The fact that they had sex for a living didn't seem to diminish the value they put on their physical relationship with their husbands/boyfriends."
The politics of sex work: While he was clear that he didn't want his project to be "either pro- or anti-prostitution," McAndrews said Nevada Rose illustrates the power and personhood of these women, in large part, by breaking down the stereotypes of sex workers. Even feminists are divided on the issue, with one narrative, espoused by people like Andrea Dworkin in the 1980s, consider it inherently misogynistic. This narrative hinges on a number of debates, primarily about the labor, or "work," of sex work and the objectification of women.
Noting the stories of these women — many of whom he invites along to do book signings and speaking engagements with him — McAndrews emphasizes the feminist tenet of control over one's body in his work. "A common thread through many of the women's stories is 'choice,'" he said. "For good or bad, or however people want to judge their situation, the women made a choice to do this work."
Ultimately, McAndrews said he wasn't trying to glorify the profession or make a political statement. He just wanted to pull back the curtain a bit, which is something the women, too, seemed to appreciate.
"When most people think of prostitution, they think of illegal prostitution and all of the exploitative and negative consequences that go along with it," McAndrews observes. "I think Nevada Rose shows a side where the women are not embarrassed or ashamed."

Marcie Bianco
Dr. Marcie Bianco is a Mic Editorial Fellow and a contributing writer for Curve Magazine and AfterEllen, as well as an adjunct associate professor at Hunter College. She has also contributed to Feministing, The Feminist Wire, Huffington Post, Lambda ...